April 24, 2009

4/25/09 Not always greener

Don't get me wrong, I love Mongolia and the Mongolian people, but maybe some of you have the impression that it's a great place to live, just like America or Europe. It has it's problems, a dark side I don't talk about much. The truth is it is a developing country that has spent the last 20 years trying to dig itself out of a hole left when the Russians suddenly vanished.

Let's look at some statistics first. Sixty percent of the population is under thirty but unemployment is over thirty percent. Seventy percent of the 1.2 million people who live in Ulaanbaatar live in the ger districts but only 30% of these families have running water or sewage disposal. Almost a half million people use outhouses and have to make daily treks to a water station, both made more difficult by the extreme winter temperatures here. With so many out of work or under paid, stealing is rampant all the way from the pickpockets and muggers to the white-collar variety. Corruption is a way of life, not an exception here.

One of our staff here at the center just moved into her first apartment at the age of 24. She calls it an apartment but really it's just a room in an apartment that she shares with two other families with it's one bathroom. She bought a small TV but couldn't afford a refrigerator but is still so excited to have this place to her own.

Education isn't free of the corruption either. Many students, including families with kindergarten-age kids, have to bribe their way into school and many university students have to pay under the table for their grades because teachers make so little. Because of that, most companies won't accept Mongolian degrees for such crucial areas like engineering. One of the staff has a friend who was a doctor here in Mongolia, but when she emigrated to England, was so embarrassed by her education, that she didn't tell them and re-applied for medical school to be a 'real' doctor. Her friend won't come back.

Health care is where you really understand you live in the developing world. I keep hearing more and more horror stories, especially with obstetrics. Otgonbayar's wife just had a baby and she was in serious trouble for over a month because of what he calls' the 'butchers' in the hospital during delivery. Oyunbatar's nine-month old son has not been eating for months due to what he claims were complications due to the lack of skill of the doctors. If people have money here, especially the foreigners, they go to the Korean hospital, but for most it's only for the rich of the rich.

I haven't been to the prison yet, but I gather it makes our prisons in American seem like the Hilton compared to the same in Mongolia. Again graft and corruption rule.

But don't get me wrong, in all this darkness there are bright stars. The director of the government orphanage near the community center puts all his time, effort and money into improving the lives of the children in his care and fires any employee who doesn't put the kids first. A maximum-security prison official asked for help in training his inmates so they won't become repeat offenders. All around me there are Mongolians who want a better life, not just for themselves but for all Mongolians.

That is why I am here. Not really to teach English, but to help a few people improve their lives, give them chances at really making changes in their lives. One way is English. It gives them the opportunities to get work in international business, banking, or trade. Especially for the young people, it gives them a slightly better chance to go to an English speaking country to get a top-notch education. Then they can come back here as better engineers, teachers, and doctors.

Our hope is that the English department could close up shop here in the City Center in a few years and move out to the ger districts, like near the community center. Hopefully, as life improves here, and they tell me that despite all the that I've talked about it's a lot better now than 20 years ago, people in the ger districts will have enough free time to spend it learning new skills like English so they too can benefit from Mongolia becoming a modern country.

So, that is why the work we do here, all the NGO's and volunteer groups like the Peace Corps, (who has over a 100 volunteers working here) is so important.

April 16, 2009

4/17/09 Another tragic fire

Things seemed to be going well here, what with springtime temps rising and such. But this week, one of our nuns had tragedy strike her family. Ani Gegu has two sisters who lived in a home with their children. This week, a fire gutted the entire thing. They lost everything.

The burned out shell

Ani Gegu's sister's and their children

For now they are living in a store room in the house next door
There is no door, that's a felt blanket keeping the cold air out

This is their makeshift kitchen but no fires allowed

His face says it all

Can you help?

Ichka made brief calculation to re-construct the house they live now. It will cost about $500 for materials and a door. But the other problem is that they have nothing; clothing, blankets, cooking utensils, nothing. And there is no one in the family to help.

We've taken up a collection here at the center with everyone pitching in, but if you could help, just hit the button below (button removed). I will personally send thank you's and pictures once the house if repaired and the women and their children settled back in. Even a few dollars would help and it's easy. From the depths of my heart, THANK YOU.

Donations: Thanks mom, Jeff & Teresa

Addendum: Someone on Facebook asked if there were any government agencies who could help. In a developing country like Mongolia, no. There are very few government agencies to help people, mostly it's foreign NGOs doing all the charity work. There's no such thing as insurance. Nothing. You can only rely on your family and friends. In the case of these two women, even though they have a few brothers, one is deathly ill, one an unemployed alcoholic and another mentally ill. All they really have is their sister Ani Gegu. And a nun doesn't have any money or way to support them. To add to all this, these women are unemployed single mothers and mentally disabled.

April 10, 2009

4/11/09 It's Cool to be Kind


WHAT DOES MARCH 31st MEAN TO YOU?
by C. Davaa, Shendrup Ling director

"My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness."
His Holiness the Dalai Lama

International Day To Be Kind was the creation of the staff at Loving Kindness Peaceful Youth (LKPY), the non-religious international peace organization, to be celebrated on 313 or the 31st of March in what they hope will be the first of many annual events promoting 'kindness'.

The LKPY concept was first conceived in 1999 by Lama Zopa, a Buddhist Lama who travels the world promoting peace, when he learned of the Columbine High School massacre on the news. Lama Zopa listened to many experts explaining the cause of such a tragedy. Everyone talked about the external factors - such as violent video games, department stores selling bullets, access to guns and bullying. These were all contributing factors of course. However no-one talked about how to heal internally, through love and kindness to both yourself and others. So, to promote this idea of kindness to youth everywhere, LKPY was born.

It's too early to tell how many organizations in how many countries celebrated this first International Day To Be Kind but Ulaanbaatar, capital city of Mongolia where almost half of the country's 3 million people live, is happy to be one of the celebrations pioneers. Mrs. Baigalmaa, coordinator for Childrens’ Development Program (CDP) of the “Lamp of the Path” NGO and Jim Damico, a volunteer for the Shedrup Ling Center of FPMT Mongolia were just the right people to come up with ideas to promote and celebrate the International Day To Be Kind here in Mongolia.

The tough question for the staff was 'How to celebrate Be Kind Day?' After careful thinking Mrs.Baigalmaa told others that it would be quite interesting to see responses towards a 'day to be kind' from children of various ages, to see how they describe and express kindness. “Mostly, children are fond of making paper crafts and drawings while teenagers are keen to express their thoughts and opinions through other types of media.” Mrs. Baigalmaa told to her colleagues. "Let’s see how kids express 'kindness' through drawing, paper crafts and essays."

The team worked on new posters with the 'Be Kind' ideas translated into Mongolian and placed them in several area schools, including orphanage. As the deadline approached, the staff were almost overwhelmed with submissions from so many children and from so many different places including the countryside. The team received more than 130 entries. Children age of 7-10 years had an opportunity to send in drawings, while 11-15 year old kids did paper crafts. The teenagers, 15-18, wrote essays about their thoughts on kindness.

As can be imagined, selecting the best works from so many was quite intense for the staff. Ten year old Enkhtushig's drawing expressed that caring and giving support were ways to be kind. He also described that kindness for him meant being with his family. The winner of paper crafts described the traditional living style of Mongolians and how families support each other. Over half of the entries came from orphanage children. The winner of essay competition S.Enkhbulgan wrote that “kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the dumb can speak” and further said that “kindness exits in the very deep in our hearts and it is shapeless, colorless and it doesn’t have any smell. That’s why kindness can be only expressed by ones’ actions and speech”. She has been living in an orphanage for many years but the strength and warmth of her words show she knows kindness both as a receiver and giver.

A selection of the drawings, paper crafts and essays will be on public display in the 'Stupa Cafe' of Shendrup Ling. Visit the cafe and see how the children's work showed their profound understanding of kindness. Maybe the children's viewpoint will remind us of something so many adults might have forgotten, the art of being kind. Remember to mark your calender to help celebrate Be Kind Day next year on 31st of March so you won't loose a chance to join us.

A little song and dance


A skit about kindness


Some of the art works


Showing the best drawing


Enkhbulgan reads her essay


Davaa & Glenda at the orphanage


A little girl reciting poetry


Glenda with our bilingual poster